The dreaded word any natural hates to hear "Breakage"!

Ladies, I am facing a dilemma and I'm so discouraged by it... Breakage. I've been doing everything I needed to do to make sure my hair is healthy and growing but I'm still experiencing breakage. Ive been wearing a protective style (box braids w/ extensions) for about 1 1/2 months now, I've been shampooing and conditioning my hair as needed (once ever 1-2 weeks), I've been moisturizing my hair daily with Shea Moisture coconut styling milk and mist and I have been sealing my hair with JBCO w/Rosemary and I've trimmed my ends on an as needed basis (every 6-8 weeks even longer) I've followed the "natural rule book" the do's and the don't's and my hair is still breaking. I've even incorporated daily scalp massages to my regimin and it seems like nothing is working at this point. It's so frustrating.  I can only guess what's causing the breakage.

Okay, so when my hair was relaxed I experienced excessive breakage in the colder months (october-February) crazy I know. In the warm months I'd notice hair growth (March- September). So I'm wonder if the change in weather has something to do with this breakage.
I did forget to mention, I'm experiencing breakage in my nape area (T'd off because it was growing so good), my edges, temple, and behind my left ear. Now the hair in those areas haven't completely broken off. Its the hair surrounding the braid that's broken off. It's difficult to explain so I'll try my best. You know how you part your hair into a "box" then place a braid? Well the actual parted hair has broken off in some spots, so you can't make a clean straight part. That's the best way that I can explain it.
Anyways, I'm also thinking that stress has contributed to my breakage. When I'm under a lot of stress, which I have been for a few weeks now (kids, bills, work ect. you know how it goes), my energy level is depleted so I might forget to moisturize my hair when needed. Then the stress itself makes my hair fall out. Hormones are thrown off balance, poor nutrition (when I'm stressed I lose my appetite), no energy= no exercise and the list goes on and on. I've tried meditating to help reduce stress but it looks like the damage is done and my hair is paying the price.

So I'm reaching out to anyone willing to help. Please help a sista out! What are some methods you've used to combat breakage?

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"Grow Damnit!" Tips on growing longer hair faster.

Like many of you just starting this healthy natural hair journey, at one point or another you googled, binged, or yahoo searched ways to grow your hair longer faster. Plenty of websites claim to have the answer(s). In reality there is no clear cut dry answer. But there are methods that can help promote healthy hair growth. Some methods work wonders for some and some have been ineffective for others. I quess it's all about finding what works for your personal needs.
My Story
Recently I have installed medium size box braids in my hair (about a month ago) , not big enough to be called the "poetic justice" braids but I like them. Anyway, Im happy with the progress my hair has made BUT I'd be happier if my hair grew out more. I've been experiencing some slow growth during my "natural" healthy hair journey. My hair currently grows at the rate of 1/2 inch per month (doesnt seem like much, I know) my goal is to get my hair to grow 1 - 2 inches per month. I want to have shoulder length hair when my one year post relaxer anniverary comes around.  So Ive made it my mission for the next 6 months to try by all means possible to get my hair growing. Ive researched EVERYWHERE on the web on ways to make my hair grow faster. I've heard everything from onion juice to apricot masks both of which sounds weird but at this point Im willing to try ANYTHING.

BIOTIN
On almost every site Ive visited they mentioned biotin as a way to promote faster hair growth.
Now biotin is a b-vitamin known not just to grow hair but promote nail growth and healthy skin as well. Many websites also say that there isn't enough evidence to back up the reports that it grows hair faster. But non the less many people are raving about it and have seen some good results. It's water soluble so you're body only uses what it needs. The suggested daily amount is 2,500 mcg (micrograms not milligrams). Some people take up to 5,000 mcg a day. Again, it's best to consult with your doctor first. I started taking biotin capsules about 4 days ago (and yes, I did consult with my doctor before taking them). Its too early to say that Ive seen results so I'm going to give it about a month or two. I purchased them at wal-mart for around $2.80 for 1,000 mcg capsules. On the bottle it states you can take them one to five times  a day. For the first 2 days I started taking one now Im taking 2 a day. I take one with breakfast with my multivitamin and one with lunch (its best to be taken with food). And I make sure I drink lots of water with it. I have my finger crossed and hoping to see some great results. A lot of my slow hair growth can be attributed anemia. Ive been anemic my whole life (generic maybe) so a little vitamins couldn't hurt.

EXERCISE and EATING RIGHT

Along with taking biotin many websites state that exercise and eating healthy can and will promote hair growth. Exercise is good because it supplies oxygen enriched blood flow to the scalp, which the hair needs to grow. Also eating foods high in iron, folic acid, zinc and protein which are all great for hair growth. So you got to drop the pizza, burgers and fries and pick up a salad, lean meat, and yogurt (or wherever other healthy foods you like). And try to exercise. Take baby steps if you have to.

STRESS REDUCTION (be happy)

Along with eating healthy and exercising stress reduction is key, not for growing hair but keeping it from falling out. If you're like me, when I'm under a ton of stress I don't even have to tell anyone because you can see it on my face (breakouts) and my hair sheds like crazy. There was a time last year when I was under a lot of stress for a long period of time. It didn't matter what supplements I took, be it iron or protein my hair continued to break. Stress is "no bueno" so try any way you can to alleviate it. Going for long walks helps me. Reading motivational or spiritual books helps too. And prayer goes a long way. If the stress is unbearable, seeing a clinician (therapist) can help. There's nothing wrong with talking to someone who's trained to deal with whatever you may be going through.

MASSAGE THAT SCALP

Besides taking supplements many websites say that a good ol scalp massage can stimulate hair growth. And a good ol scalp massage can help reduce stress. Well for me anyway. Ummm... now that feels so good lol. Massaging the scalp promotes blood flow which again the hair needs to grow. I suggest taking some of your favorite hair oil (Jamaican black castor oil, coconut oil, olive oil etc.) and massage it into your scalp. I use a mixture of coconut oil, vitamin E and soy bean oil. I normally massage the oil into my scalp for about 30 seconds to a minute. And if my day was extremely stressful I'll do it a little longer. "Ain't nothing to it but to do it" Try it for yourself.

The list goes on and on as far as ways to make your hair grow faster and longer. From keeping your scalp clean to trimming your hair every few weeks.  Some websites have up to 30 remedies (too many for me). I just stick to the ones that make the most sense like the ones mentioned above. I don't know I might try the onion juice method one day and tell you guys how it went. I'm just worried about smelling like Burger King lol. I'm definitely going to report back with my progress. So for 2 months it's biotin, healthy food, exercise, stress reduction, and scalp massages along with good moisturizing and scalp cleansing. If all else fails (which I don't suspect they will) onion juice it is. *Wish me luck!

Here are some pictures of my box braids and the biotin/ multivitamin pills I'm using. And 2 month growth progress in my nape area(back of my head)

Product Review: Creme of Nature Perfect Edges hair gel

I decided to do a product review on the product brand Creme of Nature Perfect Edges. I stumbled upon this product while browsing in my local beauty supply store. I was interested in trying this product because unlike ORS's  (Organic Root Stimulator) smooth edges, Creme of Nature's product contains Argan oil. And it was a reasonable price at around $4.99.

I bought it because I was putting a "quick weave" in my hair (another protective style) and I needed something to smooth down my edges but I didn't want my hair to get dry. So I figured this product would be perfect. Hence the name "Perfect edges". 

Once I installed and styled my quick weave I used the product to smooth my edged down. It left my edges nice and smooth and added lots shine. BUT as soon as I left my house in 80° weather (20 mins. later) the gel began to melt and drip down my face.  My once smooth shiny edges became puffy and out of place. I kept reapplying the product throughout the day to keep my edges down but it didn't work. Every time I applied it 20+ mins later my edges were puffy again. And did I forget to mention I had to keep tissue with me to wipe this dripping mess off of my forehead. This produvt would probably work better for someone with relaxed or not as rough natural hair like my 4c hair. Or maybe to use in the colder months since heat melts it away.

Pros:
.Leaves hair soft
.Adds alot of shine
.Hair is smoothed down when first applied
.Has Argan Oil
.Doesn't flake or leave any residue on hair.
.reasonable price

Cons:
.Smoothness doesn't last (Especially in warm weather)
.If your transitioning or natural with very kinky hair it doesn't keep your edges down for long.
.Contains Parabens
.Small quantity
.Drips when warm

This isn't a review to tell people to buy or not to buy this product. This is just my experience and thoughts about this product.

Oils that promote healthy hair growth!

On this natural hair journey I've searched for many ways to grow my hair faster, longer, and thicker. Ive taken several trips to the beauty supply store trying fo find products that promised faster hair growth and was met with disappointment. What I've learned on my journey is that you can't make hair grow any faster than what its meant to grow. But what you can do is keep your hair healthy so that it can grow and you can retain length.

Making sure your hair is healthy and growing you have to make sure that you are putting healthy things into your body. Eating healthy foods like green leafy veggies and foods with iron, amino acids, fiber and the right fats can help your hair grow healthy.  Also drinking lots of water. Typically drinking 8 glasses a day (well that's what I was taught in nutrition class).
Exercise is essential as well. Exercise helps stimulate blood flow to the scalp which the hair needs to grow. And exercise also helps reduce stress. Stress can cause your hair to break off. Ive experienced "stress breakage" over the past few years and no matter how many products you put in your hair to keep it from breaking, if you're experiencing a high amount of stress your hair will break off.

To keep hair healthy and growing, oils plays a major role. Oils such as caster oil, oilve oil, coconut and sweet almond oil help stimulate hair growth and moisturize your hair. Here's a list of some great oils that promote hair growth. 

ROSEMARY OIL

Rosemary oil is often used in shampoo. Rosemary has the ability to stimulate the hair follicles, which results in hair growth. Rosemary helps hair grow not only longer, but stronger.

JOJOBA OIL

Jojoba oil has the ability to loosen and remove crusted build up on the scalp. This build up is known to block hair follicles and inhibit hair growth.

LAVENDER OIL

Lavender oil is used for many purposes one of which is hair loss. Several smaller studies have shown that individuals suffering from alopecia (hair loss) who massaged their heads daily with lavender and other essential oils had significant hair re-growth over the course of seven months

COCONUT OIL

Coconut oil is excellent for nourishing hair and helping it have a beautiful shine. Massaging coconut oil into the scalp ensures that the hair is free of lice, lice eggs and dandruff and helps with the nourishment and re-growth of damaged hair

THYME OIL

Thyme oil is used to promote hair growth by improving circulation to the scalp through massage. Thyme provides hair with shine, luster and bounce.

JAMAICAN BLACK CASTER OIL

This Oil works for all hair types. It will moisturize, thicken, strengthen and rapidly increase hair growth. It increases blood flow to the scalp, supplying valuable nutrients to hair follicles. Jamaican Black Castor Oil will also prevent hair breakages, dandruff, eczema and dry, itchy scalp. Jamaican Black Castor Oil has crossed over into other ethnic groups, and is now being used widely for some of the same purposes, as well as new found uses including eyelash and eyebrow hair growth and as massage oil. This versatile oil carries many varied uses.

My favorite Products

Shea Moisture products are my favorite products to use. First, I love them because they're ingredients are 100% natural and they make my hair really soft and manageable. I also use then on my daughters hair. Its the only product that keeps their hair soft and moisturized all day. Another thing I love about Using Shea Moisture products is that it helps repair your damaged hair. So if you're transitioning to natural hair like I am this product will work very well for you.

You can find these procuts at any drug store ( eg. walgreens, CVS, ect.) even at Wal-mart now. Prices range from $7.99- $12 depending on the size and store. They also have starter kits for people who are transitioning with almost everything you need to help you. Starter kits usually start at around $20. In them you'll get their Shea butter leave-in or rinse out conditioner (a must have), shampoo, and finishing elixir. I recommend these products to anyone.

I use these products shown below in my daily regimen. I moisturize my hair twice a day. I use the L.O.C method to seal in the moisture. I start off by spritzing my hair with water or Shea Moisture moisturizing coconut milk (depending on how dry my hair is), then I use a dime size portion of the shea butter leave in conditioner. Then to help seal in the moisture I use Organix Shea butter and Argan oil (also found at wal-mart).

The best advice I'd give to someone who's going natural is give this method and these products a try. This hair journey, for me, has been about finding the best products for me. (trial and error), and learning to accept and love your hair no matter how kinky, curly, or "coily" it may be.

Hope this helps

Reading the Lables

Before I started growing my natural hair out I would buy products based on what the front of the lable would say. For example I bought a lot of products that promised to help grow my hair "faster", thicker, longer, stronger and healthier. Little did I know that many of those products didn't do anything they promised but they also contained ingredients that we're damaging my hair even more.  Once I found out what those ingredients were, I cleared out my cabinet, read the lables of ALL the hair products I use and got rid of the ones containing these bad ingredients. I was a huge fan of the Dr. Miracle's products but had to stop using them because many of their products contain MINERAL OIL & PETROLATUM, which are not good for your hair. My advise to anyone is to read read read the lables CAREFULLY. If a product sounds too good to be true, chances are that it is and it more than likely contains ingredients that aren't healthy for you. An example of a good product that I love is Shea Moisture products. Their products have all natural ingredients and are perfect for natural hair. You can find these products at most beauty supply stores and drug stores like CVS and Walgreens.

Avoid Products containing:

ISOPROPYL ALCOHOL
MINERAL OIL & PETROLATUM
Petrolatum
polyethylene glycol (PEG)
PROPYLENE GLYCOL (PG)
SODIUM LAURYL SUFATE (SLS)
SODIUM LAURETH SULFATE (SLES)
CHLORINE
diethanolamine (DEA)
momoethnanolamine (MEA)
triethanolamine
FD & C Color PIGMENTS
FRAGRANCE
IMIDAZOLIDINYL UREA
DMDM HYDANTOIN

click the link for the reasons why you shouldn't use products containing these ingredients.
Hope this helps anyone. Thanks for reading. Feel free to comment. :) and subscribe.

Lovin' my Twists

Just put my twist back in 2 days ago and I think Im keeping this style for the entire summer. Re-braiding every 1-2 months. And yes I braid and twist my own hair using Janet kankelon extensions.

My Natural Hair Journey pt. 1

      Its been over 3 months since I had my hair relaxed and 2 months of transitioning. I must say that Im happy that I made the choice to go natural. Ive seen alot of changes in my hair. Before transitioning my hair was very weak, brittle and thinning. Now my hair is strong, thick and growing.

       I just recently took out my twists I did with extensions(kept them in for over a month) and I noticed growth especially around the nape area (back of my head). My nape was where I had saw the most damage and breakage over the years, especially when I had my last relaxer. It had gotten so short that I could barely grip the hair when I was putting my extensions in. Now my nape is thick and full. I know its going to be a few more months before i see significant growth. But as long as I know its growing healthy, I'm fine with that.

        I'm aware that there are pros and some cons to going natural and the #1 con on my list is "Shrinkage". Sometimes I find myself a little upset because its hard to tell if your hair has grown. When I moisturize my hair it shrinks, making it hard to see actual growth. #2 is that I'm having a hard time with is finding the "right" kind of hair products that are great for 4B hair. I started using Dark ~n~ lovely's new natural mango moisturizer. It makes my hair soft but when it begins to dry it leaves  this flacky white residue in my hair. Finding the perfect products have been a challenge for me. And #3 is time. I understand that growing hair takes time but it can be a little frustrating. Its almost like planting a seed and waiting for it to grow, some plants grow faster than others. I just have to learn that it takes time, everyones hair isn't the same (mines grows a little slower) and to keep reminding myself that it'll all be worth it in the end.

        For the first time in years I'm actually seeing my natural hair texture. I have been relaxing my hair for so long that I didn't know how my natural hair looked or felt . Like I mentioned above my natural hair is a 4B. So it's taking a lot of getting use to. But overall I'm happy. Ive started trimming off my split ends and in some areas my relaxed hair was so thin and damaged I just cut it off completely. I'm feeling like I'm becoming more ready to do the "big chop" and just get rid of all my damaged hair all together.  I'll give it another month or so. Everyone was right, dealing with 2 kinds of textured hair can be a challenge.

       So far my regimen includes using Aphogee 2 step protein treatment every 6 weeks, co washing 1 to 2 times a week using Organix coconut milk conditioner (smells great). When I do shampoo my hair I shampoo once a week to once every 2 weeks depending on the dryness of my hair. I also use Wild growth oil 1 to 2 times a day (usually when I wake up in the morning and/or right before I go to bed at night. I always try to keep my hair moisturized and conditioned. I use Aphogee Pro-vitamin Leave-in conditioner everyday. That's until I can find a better one. Along with the Wild growth oil, I use Argan oil to help seal in the moisture and add shine. I started using Dark-n-Lovely natural hair mango moisturizer but Im probably going to discontinue use because of all the residue it leaves in my hair. I was also using Profectiv root healthy cream but I stopped using it because it leaves my hair feeling sticky. I always make sure my hair is wrapped with a satin scarf before bed. Also on occasion I use CHI keratin mist (I'd say twice a week).

    I have been keeping my hair in protective styles (twists, braids, even lace fronts and wig caps). I actually enjoy wearing wigs and lacefronts. Its a great way to protect my natural hair and I have fun switching to different styles. I'm planning on braiding my hair with extensions later on this week. I try to make sure that when I braid that its never TOO tight.

I found another helpful website that helps you better understand how to grow your hair and keep it healthy.
How Black Women Can Grow Long, Healthy Hair

Below are some pics of me wearing protective styles and pics braided hairstyles I love

A helpful website for hair care!

Recently I've stumbled upon a website thats been very helpful. I went online looking for ways to grow my hair out healthy and long and this website popped up.
Grow Long Hair if You Are a Black Female - wikiHow

This article has step by step ways to care for and nourish your growing hair. It has the do's and don't's of how to maintain your curls, kinks and coils. For example co washing often and using leave in conditioners. Also making sure you use products with NO petroleum jelly or mineral oils.

I thought this article was very helpful and that's why I wanted to share this with anyone who's interested or still new to this natural thing like I am. ;) 

Bad Hair (My Story)

My story goes way back...so far I can't quite recall where the damage began. As long as I can remember Ive always had issues with my hair. It was extremely rough, corse (almost brillo padish) lol, very brittle, extremely dry and very hard to manage without the aid of relaxers. As a young girl I didnt know any better. I honestly thought relaxers were good for me and that they were the only answer to my problem (my hair). I believed that having long bone straight hair was "beautiful". I wasn't aware of the damage I was doing to my hair. Over several years Ive exprienced some bad breakage. And when I say bad I mean my hair was comming out in clumps! There were even times I broke down and cried because my hair was falling out so bad. I just didn't know what to do. With all of this I still managed to go back to the "creamy crack" (relaxer). I was causing even more damage on my existing damaged hair and damaging my new growth as well. Then I would use flat irons on high heat in an attempt to blend my relaxed hair "better" with my weaves. Years of chemical damage, over-processing and heat damaged left me with more hair in my comb, and floor than on my head. I was so embarrassed. Ive always stuggled not just growing my hair but trying to keep it from breaking off. I was one of those girls who, without weaves or extentions, would get made fun of because my hair wasn't long and wavy. For nearly 20 years or so (mind you Im 26) Ive worn weaves (pony tails, glue ins, sew ins) to cover up my "problem". I even went to several hair stylist who all told me the same thing. "If you want your hair to grow healthy, chop it off and start over!" Hearing that was a nightmare. 1/5/13 I got my last perm (stupid I know). And just like before, my hair broke off real bad. But instead of freaking out I decided to do something about it. I knew I couldnt keep hiding from my problem. I was tired of hiding it. weaves had become more of a security blanket than anything and Ive finally had enough. So this past Feb. I gave up the "perm", let go of the hair glue and weave tracks and let my real hair grow. The only problem was I didnt know where to start. Just like many others I googled "how to make my hair grow" and I did my reasearch. I found many helpful sites. I also read lots of blogs about other women transitioning from relaxed to natural and was inspired to write my own. I made up my mind healthy hair is more important to me than long damaged hair. I understand this will be a long and at times difficult process but its what I need to do to ensure that my hair is healthy strong and growing. Dont get me wrong Im terrified (mainly at what others will think or say) but Im excited at the same time. Im too chicken to do the "big chop" as of yet so Im giving myself a few more months to let my hair get to a length that Im comfortable with. Im in whats known as the "Transitional stage". Im giving myself 12 -18mos. before I do my "BC" (big chop). So for now Its braids other protective styles and lots and lots of TLC. wish me luck. Feel free to comment, give some advise or ask any questions. I hope to connect with people who have been, will be, or are interested in going natural. Every once in a while I'll show and write about my progress, my regimens and favorite products to use.

Products I use: .Dr. Miracle's Gro Oil .Dr. Miracle's Temple and Mape Gro Balm .Renewing Moroccan Argan oil .Profectiv Root health, Temple recovery, Mega grow products. .Wild Growth .Aphogee vitamins, protein treatment, 2-step keratin treatmet, Pro-vitamin leave in conditioner .Mane n Tale shampoo and conditioner

KA'OIR COSMETICS review

My name is Veronica and this is my review on KA'OIR COSMETICS.

First and foremost I want to give Keyshia KA'oir (CEO and Founder of KA'OIR Cosmetics) props and much respect for turning a dream into a multi million dollar business. She truly is an inspiration.

I stumbled across KA'OIR on facebook first. Snooki (Jersey shore reality star) had advertised it on her facebook page. At first I actually thought it was Snooki's own brand before I found out about Keyshia Ka'oir (Dior). The moment I saw her Glitz stick collection on facebook I was in love. I am crazy for all things glitter so I was immediately interested in buying a Glitz stick package. I found the website on Instagram. I went to her website kaior.com, looked through all the colors, watched her tutorials and ordered. I ordered the "Gorgeous Glitz stick package on Feb. 24. The package included 1 lipstick, 1 Glitz stick and 1 applicator. With shipping and handling it came up to around $35. I chose regular shipping, so it was suppose to be shipped in 5-7 business days.  On Feb. 28th I received an email stating that my package was shipped. I was excited and couldn't wait to get my Glitz stick. Weeks went by but no package. My excitement soon turned into disappointment.

Long story short, I ended up having to wait a month for my package to come. With several emails to the company and to USPS about the whereabouts of my package the only thing I recieved was a generic email (probably sent to everyone having the same problem) stating that my package should be there that week. That was now March 17. The week came and went, still nothing. 10 days later my package arrived. I was so disappointed because I stood by the brand and thought that with the business booming that customer service would have been better. I felt the least they should have done was give me a coupon or ANYTHING just for waiting a month for my package. Also once I got the package, lets just say it wasn't handled with care. Beat up box, crinkled flyer, and no coupon or letter acknowledging or ever apologizing for the delay. Most companies I've ordered from would have given me at least that much. I just didn't feel appreciated or much like a "valued customer".

When my package finally did arrive I was as happy as a kid in a candy store. But more relieved than anything.  While I was waiting for my package I went online and had seen that tons of other women had complained about the same thing. Women were complaining about how long delivery took, other women complained about receiving the wrong products and customer service not fixing the problems. Seeing all of those complaints made me a little weary about ordering from KA'OIR. I was also nervous about recieving the wrong order too. I think once they fix the delivery issues and provide a customer service number KA'OIR will be an even bigger success.

The product itself is good. Great? No but its pretty. Definitely not worth the wait. It goes on smooth and its creamy. The Glitz is very pretty and gives the lipstick a totally diffrent look. The glitter is very shinny/shimmery and makes your lips pop. When you put it on youll definitely turn heads. Ive gotten complements and stares from people looking like "wtf?" "what are you wearin?" . I do like it and think its pretty. So if you want to stand out this product is for you. Just hope you're experience with the delivery isn't as bad as mine.

Whould I order again? No and yes. No I'll never order online again. And Yes, I'll buy Kaior cosmetics if they were sold in stores. That way I can get what I want without the long wait.  

PROS:
.Lots of variety
.Pretty/unique colors
.Smooth and creamy
.You'll get alot of attention

CONS:
.Poor customer service
.Took way too long for product delivery
. Many items are on back order but isn't stated on website
.A little on the pricier side $$$ (lipsticks cost more than MAC)

I hoped this article helped anyone looking to order from KA'OIR Cosmetics. This isn't written to turn anyone away from buying this product. Its just me expressing my personal views and experiences.